Ghanaian marriage counselor, Frank Edem Adofoli outlined what couples need to do in order to have a healthy relationship.
The marriage counselor in a post on his Facebook page intimated that most marriages and relationships do not last because couple don’t communicate effectively.
To him, if a partner in a relationship commits a crime, you should talk to the fellow and not to other friends.
He added that no marriage is perfect because it’s a company of two sinners. He asked that couples should stop looking for perfection in their partners.
Read his message below.
“Do you tell them their mistake or tell it to others? Why tell others? These mistakes are to be corrected by the one who made them and not by others.
We are all guilty of this. We want to be heard, we want people to know we are right, that we are perfect. But the truth is, we are not. Imagine you are in their shoes. No marriage or relationship is perfect because its a company of two sinners; so don’t judge it each day by the harvest you reap but rather judge it by the seeds of goodness, forgiveness, love, care, attentions, etc that you plant or put into your Relationship.
Always remember, perfect relationship is not that you will never get angry, upset or irritated with each other. It’s how fast you resolve and bounce back to normalcy – Counselor Adofoli”